Cross culture relationship
One of the consulting website provide an article about cross culture relationship. The article discuss main problems and difficulties related to the topic and provides some tips and directory that should be taken into consideration by the couple. First, the article starts with a background information about what is culture identity. According to the article culture identity is abstracts ideas that cant been seen. It shape our life , the way we think , our vales and give us a perspective to the world. Then the article mentions mentions some issue related to cross culture relation like religion differences ,losing identity, conflict between the couple over small things , and values.
Then the article explicit some of the aforementioned issue like life style disagreement, religion differences, loss identity , and language barriers.Some example for the issues mentioned above: life disagreement about money and chore distribution between the couple. Also religion differences may result some conflict between the couple like life values ,and believes,raising children, and lack of family support.
Finally the article gives some advice for cross culture relation and how the tips work and help the couple.
Actually i see the article very interesting to me as an experience i have been through. cross culture relationship become common with this small relation. even though the article focus on one issue but when i read it actually it open my eyes to other issue like how our culture shape out thoughts and see the world. I always wanted to see the think and understand the world from the other perspective.from my point of view and experience, i can say the best way to solve the complicated issue of cross culture relationship is tolerance , patient , understanding and educating the couple by the problems. I have been in three cross culture relationship. and I have faced most of the problems that have been addressed by the article. For example , sometime even i speak clearly in English my partner said i can not understand you. I figured out it was the way we communicating is different and how we obverse the ideas. Also we have disagreement even in small things like cleaning the house, money , which restaurant we have to go. I can say that both partner have critical role to make the relationship successful by understand both culture, respect , be tolerance to accept new ideas.
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